When I was about to start 7th grade, my first year in Jr. High, I met a quiet girl with shoes that looked like water. Literally, they were those Nike slip-ons that looked like water... I thought they were some of the coolest shoes a kid could have. Unfortunaly, I barely remembered the girl in the shoes.
When the first day of school came around, the girl in the "Water Shoes" was new and did not know very many people. She was assigned a buddy to show her around..that buddy was my best friend at the time. Lunch came, this part I don't even remember which is terrible, and we were supposed to show the new girl where the cafetreia was located. As we all went to the bathroom together, we left her in there by herself, not knowing where the cafeteria was or any clue of how to get there.
I continued to see the girl at school and youth group, never talking to her but for the occasional mention of her "water shoes." What a giver I was...talking to this girl that was incredibly quiet and needed my approval of her choice of shoes. Clearly, she need my praise to make her day brighter. Safe to say, I was an ass.
Eventually, she moved away. Where she went I was not sure but I did not see her for years.
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My freshman year of college our dorm rooms ended up being diagonal from each other. We talked about how I liked her shoes back then and how we had net seen one another in years. I learned more and more about this girl and quickly grew to where I could not imagine my days without her. She was caring, sweet, loving, passionate, and so beautifully artistic. She was also the first person I watched get a tattoo, and she took it like a champ.
When she told me about that day I left her in the bathroom, I had no recolection that it had happened. I think we laughed about it at the time, but now it makes my heart hurt so badly to think of how shallow I had been.
That girl, became and still is one of my dearest friends. We lived together, she was a bridesmaid in my wedding, and I in hers...but most beautifully of all my little girl was born on her birthday.
I am counting down the days to when I get to visit her in a couple weeks and (Insert pregnant girl excited dance. Super attractive) think about how amazingly things work out and the people God puts in your life. I am thankful that I got another chance to be friends with that girl. I have been better for it.